i don't like coconut oil either. it's greasy if it doesn't absorb into your hair strands. i was hoping i would get all these awesome benefits like i've seen other naturals talk about. i tried all different brands. it just doesn't absorb. but my daughter's hair likes coconut oil and no greasy feeling.
I, too, hate Coco Oil. I use Shea Butter. The hair shaft absorbs the oil. Your hair will have sheen and flexibility without feeling all ewwww. Good luck. Of course, you don't need it... :)